Sunday, May 8, 2011

When Life went through.

 Do you afraid to grow old? Do you afraid getting older year by year?
Do you afraid what gonna be in future when you no longer a youngster?
When you not able and manage to do anything else by your own self?

Everyone would turn older year by year, the truth that we have no doubt to deny it. .
Historically, we can hardly do anything to hold our youngness, this is not essential for our life .
There is one day, we are no longer young, deprivation of memories, 
lost of judgement, blurry sight all come to us .
For personality thinking, the most important is how we get use of the rest of time we have .


My mom was running an organization named Caring Old folks Home 
which take care of those old folks without paying .
Most of them were octogenarian that never get marriage, without children. Living without prides.
Besides that, Down Syndrome, single moms, children home, drug rehab
 which needed help is under the organizations too.

Thankyou to God, I got the opportunities to see the other world from my mom's job.
Perceived love, caring, tolerance, keenness, diligent, 
conversation are always needed in a big family, and we have to learn from it.
It may be imperfect if without one of above, unless you contribute willingly and selflessly .


Mom used to emphasize the important of being discipline among the old folks.
She wanted them to be dependent, realizing it's never agonize of being alone.
Everyone has their own job to implement without unfairly,
some of them in part of cooking, some of them mopping the floor, 
some of them folding the clothes without grudge inside them.

Both of them are down syndrome that staying in the home.
They can be very independent without anyone to help.
 They feed themselves, wash cloths, wash dishes and everything by their own.
There's something that they are different from us,
we are too complicated and they are just too simple naive.

Mom is a prestigious women that respected by others, she did things perfectly and flawless.
She uses the ability that God gave to her to spread out love as much as she can and she could,
I guess one day her love would be conveyed nationwide.

It's my mum, me and the lovely adorable down syndrome name HongZai in the home.
Here some stories that I would like to share, you will get to know what life meant,
and the cruelness happened on them changed their life. I literally learnt from their experiences. 

He is Uncle Timothy, 87 years old.
He can dance very well, talk very good. He is a English educated.
He actually owned 2 son in passed 30 years ago, but no longer having any son currently.
Both sons are professional, I remember one of them is a doctor either.
So what being a doctor? Help and cure and treat the people,
but left the father who educated him being a doctor in the old folks home.
Never appear for 25 years since their father trying to get them.
Felt so sad and sorry to Uncle Timothy. May God bless him.
However, he been treated the best from the home. =)

She is one of the down syndrome who named Esther.
Guess how old is she?
She is a very naive girl, very pure just like a white paper that never get any dirt.
Her life is all about simpleness, briefness, happiness and easygoing. 
Nothing is complicated for her, she don't know anything about complicated.
She is just like a kid. A never grow up kid. 
Her life is as simple as a kid do from she born-ed until the day she die.
She is actually a 40 years old woman but with a 4 years old mind.

We promised to love our old folks like how we love our parent.
We promised to give the best life for the old folks, so they feel like in a warm family.
They are not dumped, they are not alone, they are not lonely.
They are treasure, they are dearest.

We did always organized one day trip, family trip for the old folks to continue enjoy their life,
but not only staying in the home to waiting the time to pass.


This trip is organized by British America Tobacco company to had a ride on cruise at Putrajaya!
Millions thanks to (BAT) that organized and spent their time to created an
really unforgettable and memorable trip for our old folks that they did enjoy real much.

Yes, we have our own Rumah Caring uniform.
Everyone of us will put on our uniform for every function or trip day out.
We are one big family!

The True real happiness in Life.
It's my mum and the little adorable down syndrome HongZai.
Mcdonald time with the children and old folks.

Honor your father and mother which is the first commandment with a promise. 
EPHESIANS 6 : 2

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